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Does Being Nice Build Attraction?Probably the biggest myth we men have bought into is that if we are "nice" to women they will like us in return; that is, they will be attracted to us. The problem is that being nice is NOT ENOUGH to create attraction.
If you are like the average "nice guy," this is perhaps the biggest point you must learn before you will ever stop being "just a friend" to the women in your life.
You may go out of your way to be really nice to a woman you just met: be considerate of her needs, really listening to what she's saying, agreeing with her opinions, doing her favors, etc. What you're doing is "nice". The only problem is that this does nothing to increase attraction.
A man who focuses only on being very nice to a woman will be seen as a friend -- nothing more. If "being nice" is the only ingredient in your recipe, you're missing the spice of attraction.
"I've dated Bob a couple of times now. He is SUCH a nice guy. He's so considerate and sweet. But I just don't feel any chemistry. I'm not attracted to him."
Bob screwed up. He ONLY focused on being nice and considerate and a gentleman, without ALSO focusing on building physical attraction in the woman.
He didn't balance being nice with BEING A MASCULINE MAN.
So that's the first lesson of attraction we have to get clear on right from the start:
Being nice is not enough.
BEING NICE HAS A DIRTY LITTLE REWARD
If you're reading this right now, there's a good chance you tend to be TOO nice on your dates, and don't balance this with being an interesting, masculine, sexually aware man.
Every behavior has some sort of reward, a payoff, and that's why we continue to do the things we do. Underneath many men's niceness, what's REALLY going on is that they don't want to risk REJECTION by expressing their interests as men.
So being nice has a payoff:
IT'S A WAY TO AVOID REJECTION.
If you tend to have dates where nothing physical happens, ask yourself if focusing so much on being nice may give you the payoff of protecting you from rejection.
Think about it.
Women who go out with guys who are only nice quickly lose interest, because these guys are rarely "man enough" to step up to the plate and let women know very clearly that they are interested in them physically and romantically.
And beware…once the woman's interest has faded, you have just entered the dreaded "Friend Zone" from which very few men have ever returned.
BE NICE, JUST DON'T ONLY BE NICE
There's nothing wrong with being nice, considerate, and thoughtful as long as it doesn't get in your way of building attraction and letting her know you're interested. So sure, open doors, pull out chairs, be chivalrous, but don't SUBSTITUTE doing these nice things for expressing interest and building attraction.
Friends can open doors and pull out chairs. Wussies can open doors and pull out chairs.
But only mature, sexually aware men will take the chance to do things to build attraction, express their desires, and make their moves. Women EXPECT men who are interested in them to do this. IT'S OKAY. It's part of being a man who has a healthy relationship with his own sexuality.
Men who are okay with their own sexuality may express their interest in women quite often. Men who aren't okay with their own sexuality feel that there's something wrong about expressing their sexual interest. As if there is something "bad" about doing it. As if there is something "un-gentlemanly" about doing it. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
YOU NEED AN EDUCATION
And if you haven't already mastered these ideas, you're going to need to educate yourself on how to get this part of your life under control. You'll need to learn how to stop just being nice to women, and instead start expressing the natural, masculine part of yourself in a way that women respond to.
It's not difficult to improve. You just need to know exactly what to do.
And best place I know of to learn this, without having to muddle through a bunch of lame-ass advice that's rampant on the internet these days, is my e-book. You'll learn how to get over your fear of approaching women, how to get a phone number in under two minutes, how never again to be seen as "just a friend," how to build attraction, get physical, and much, much more.
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Every day I get emails from guys who are having more success with women because they read the book. Here's the latest one I just got today:
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Like I said, I have students across the globe who are enjoying women more than ever before. Tons of testimonials prove this. I stand behind my products 100%. And they're fully backed by a no-hassle guarantee.
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