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Welcome back, Friend.

I'm writing this from a hotel room in Chicago. I must say, there are some pretty fine-looking women running around in the clubs here. It never ceases to amaze me that no matter where I go, every place has its own unique style and its own 'flavor' of beautiful women.

That's why I think that traveling is one of the most valuable things you can do with your life. As you experience different cultures and their associated ideas of what constitues social value, it gives you a better understanding of the social matrix as a whole, even back in your home town. The more data you have, the better you're able to play the game, point blank period.

That's real talk right there, baby.

Ahem. Anyhoo, this is gonna be one of those issues of the newsletter where I try to make heads or tails of some of the dozens of emails I get every day.

So, without any further ado, let's get to it.

*** QUESTION ***

Master Jeff,

I've been getting your newsletters for a few weeks now, and they are GOLD. There are so many new things I've learnt from them, in a totally different perspective.

Well here's the story...I go to college and met this sexy girl last semester.

Now here's the deal: I had told this girl on our second date that I DO date more than one woman when I'm just DATING, because I believe in total honesty. I also told her that if we both agree on an exclusive relationship, then I will stop dating other women.

So while we were in bed making out (after the third date), she stopped at one point and told me that she was not very comfortable kissing a guy who went around with other women. So I told her that I hadn't even kissed any of my other dates and she shouldn't worry about it.

Everything's going great with this girl now, except I feel like I'm not getting what I want. My game has definitely improved, but I want to polish it so much that I can attract ANY woman I want ANYWHERE and SLEEP with her. But I don't see that happening while I'm seeing this girl. Because of the comment she made, I feel really guilty if I go out with other women and don't tell her about it (because she is a genuinely nice woman). Yet this is what I will have to do to improve my game to perfection.

How would you handle this Jeff? How do you keep a girlfriend (I'm sure you have one) and still perfect your game with other women?

Please help on this. It's been bothering my head for a week now. I really appreciate it.

PC, Oklahoma

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Okay, before I begin, let me just say this: you can dispense with all this "master" nonsense. I definitely wouldn't consider myself a master of this game, although I do identify with Master Shake from Aqua Teen Hunger Force, so props on that.

There's an old adage that goes, "follow those who seek the truth. Run from those who claim to have found it."

I'm just a guy, albeit a guy who's experienced and analyzed thousands and thousands of social interactions and seen and done tons of crazy things. But when it comes right down to it, I'm very much a student of the game. So enough with the idolatry already.

That said, I totally agree with you when you say that total honesty is the best policy.

Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to be on some moral high horse here (seriously, talk to anyone who knows me well and they will attest to my, uh, "moral relativism").

It's just that, all things considered, in the long run honesty is going to result in less drama and less headaches. Believe me when I say this, because it comes from experience.

So along those lines, I'm gonna be completely honest with you here and tell you some things that you may not want to hear.

So you told your girl that you see other women. That's great. No problem there. What I have a problem with is the manner in which you told her. By "announcing" this to her on a "date", you practically guarantee a bad response.

First of all, what the hell are you doing going on a "date" with a girl you haven't had sex with? I'm assuming that when you say "date" you're talking about a traditional dinner-and-a-movie scenario. If I'm wrong, I apologize.

But if I'm not, then you need to stop doing this right now. This is bad, because it sets up a traditional make-him-wait-for-sex frame.

Do you hear me?


If you have to meet up with the chick more than once before sex (not uncommon by the way), do something relatively inexpensive like going for coffee or straight for drinks.

Secondly, by making a formal "announcement" that you see other girls, you basically forced her to react in the way she did. In her mind, it's almost as though you said, "Listen. You should be aware that I'm disrespecting you. What are you gonna do about it?"

If she does nothing, then she's afraid that she'll lose value and you'll forever view her as someone to be taken advantage of. So she has to take a stand to hold on your your respect. Understand?

Right now you're probably thinking, "Okay, genius, so what do YOU do?"

Check it. When I meet a girl, it is apparent from minute one that I am a player and I get with other girls. It's obvious from the get-go. There is no NEED for me to make some big show out of it.

I don't need to TELL them, it is IMPLIED. Whether it's insinuated by the stories I tell, or by the fact that I have to enter her in my phone as "Amy #4", it is readily apparent what they are getting themselves into: a relationship with a guy who dates multiple women at once.

Do you see the difference?

The first way is like issuing an ultimatum. It's like you're representing yourself a certain way, then all of a sudden springing this nasty surprise on Of course there's going to be a negative reaction.

The second way, there are no surprises. She knows what's up, and by continuing to be around me, she's giving her tacit approval. In other words, she knows that if she's gonna continue to be a part of my world, my seeing other girls comes with the territory. I don't have to SAY anything.

Insinuate that which you are tempted to elucidate.

Of course, at this point with this chick, all this is just hindsight. What you're primarily concerned with now is how to proceed with this particular girl.

It's sad. I know, because I went through a very similar situation.

When I first got into the game, I had been going out with a very nice, sweet girl for a couple years. When I told her that I wanted to start seeing other people, she accepted it, but it tore her up inside, and I knew it.

As a result, I experienced massive guilt feelings that consequently held me back from achieving my goals.

You're gonna have to take a long, hard look at yourself and what you really value here, my friend.

If you love this girl and want to start a family with her, then maybe this game isn't for you. If that's the case, you should forget about it and follow your heart, lest you live the rest of your life in regret over how you screwed up the best thing that ever happened to you.

If, however, you search yourself and discover that you're only with this girl because, as you put it, she's "sexy", then you know what you have to do.

Let her go.

When push comes to shove, you yourself stated that you don't feel as though you're getting what you want, and if that's the case, you're doing her a greater disservice by continuing to be with her. Tell her the truth and let her go.

Who knows, it's entirely possible that she'll respect the fact that you had the balls to be honest with her and will decide to stay with you, who knows. In any case, I hope this sheds some light on your scenario.

Finally, you asked how I manage to keep my girlfriend while perfecting my game with other women. That's actually a funny story.

When I first started going out with my girlfriend, she was aware that I was some kind of notorious player, but didn't know the full extent of it. That is, until one of her friends (who I had already slept with) narc'ed me out and told her what I do for a living.

So I braced for the backlash... but it never came.

What ended up happening is she became totally fascinated by this, and started begging me to teach her the methods. I was very reluctant to do so at first, but she kept at it, and eventually, I started to show her some stuff.

Then we went out in the field, and I was amazed at how quickly she picked this stuff up. Within a week, we had scored two pretty girls for threesomes.

See, my girlfriend's bisexual. Actually, I believe all women are bisexual, but that's a topic for a whole 'nother newsletter. :)

So, long story short, I trained her up, and now we go out together to pick up girls. We're incredibly efficient at it as well. She's like a lethal cyborg or something. She now instructs along with the Executive Coaches on RSD programs.

If you take the San Francisco bootcamp, part of the course is specifically geared towards picking up girls for threesomes, and we show you how to do it, in real time.

The curriculum for bootcamp varies from instructor to instructor. The fundamental structure remains the same, but each Executive Coach has a different area of expertise and a different perspective. That's why you can take numerous programs and still get value from each one.

At Real Social Dynamics, all of our Executive Coaches are required to have several thousand approaches under their belts before they are even CONSIDERED for the TRAINING PROCESS.

And they're carefully screened to make sure their game is FOR REAL.

By taking a bootcamp, you'll INSTANTLY profit from our collective *decades* of hard-won experience.

During the program, your mind will be SATURATED with TONS of instantly usable, proven field-worthy information. Then you'll hit the clubs and apply what you've learned, with the Executive Coaches there to guide you and provide instant, detailed feedback.

This is an experience that can literally take years off your learning curve.



To me, instruction in the field was all-important in order to get a feel for the material. Each day, after about 6 hours of instructors spewing wisdom, it would begin click into place as they demonstrated the material and winged with the students.

This is where the critical subtleties of the material really came through. As a small example, I didn't really get how to angle my body to match her level of engagement until you guys reminded me and showed me a couple times.

After I had done it a few times, it just stuck and now it's something I do without thinking about it.

One of the highlights of the weekend was [seducing a woman] on the second night after 2 hours of winging with Papa. Also, getting back home and demonstrating the material to my friends has been great fun.

Now, I have the tools now to approach anyone, anywhere now, and that is exactly what I wanted to get out of this workshop.

- Mike D., Seattle, Washington, USA

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Right. I like how you talk about the 'critical subtleties' of the material becoming apparent once you see it demonstrated in front of your eyes.

It's like the difference between looking at some little flowcharts and pie graphs detailing how to ride a motorcycle, and actually getting on the damn thing and hitting the road.

I also like how you mentioned how much fun it's been demonstrating the material for your friends. I know that a lot of the time, when you tell people about this stuff, they scoff at you. After all, everybody wants to think that they have this part of their life handled. It's not until you actually get them out in the field and show them what's really possible that they come around.

Believe me, after your friends see you approach the hottest ladies in the club, flip the switches and gain attraction within minutes, they won't be scoffing anymore. They'll be BEGGING you to show them how you do it!

Now's the time to take control of your social life once and for all. To learn more and sign up for your Individualized Bootcamp today, visit our site:


Let's take another caller:

*** QUESTION ***


I know this sounds weird but i'm a girl, I like subscribing to your newsletter. I'm just interested because I get intimidated talking to a GUY yes and he is really extremely cute and i got so INTIMIDATED.

Anyway I got really embarassed and went all red in the face, but then I saw the guy again and he was talking to me, this time I didn't feel intimidated I felt somewhat relief and not scared and ended up asking him what his name was also. So i think im good looking as well, but I still get like those guys who are intimidated.

But I just want to know do u think that if girls did the same things what ur teaching the boys will we get the same response with the BOYS? Has any girl ever asked u things and u automatically know that they were using the same game as you when u were getting the girl?

- Sherl

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Well, Sherl, if you've read this far, you obviously know that my very own girlfriend studies this stuff, albeit for use on girls. But that's largely irrelevant.

The thing is, most of what we do is based on the things we've learned from reverse-engineering the social matrix and figuring out how and why it functions the way it does.

A lot of it is related to the concept of VALUE and how that affects the way people interact with one another.

So, to answer your first question, yeah, the methods and concepts we teach for use on women can be applied just as effectively on guys.

And to answer your second question, yeah, my girlfriend will occasionally use the techniques on me. The funny thing is, I know exactly what she's doing, but it still affects me as though I had never learned any of this stuff, which I guess is testament to how powerful these techniques actually are. I'm thinking I created a monster, know what I'm sayin'?

During the program, you'll learn how to leverage universal principles of human psychology to your advantage in any situation, from the bedroom to the board room.

{!name}, I suspect by now your hunger is growing... you can see yourself as a guy who's extremely satisfied. A guy who has his choice of women. And it CAN be a reality. This is something anyone can learn...

You just need a jump-start!

The information and personalized training in our live programs can save you a lot of frustration, and get you the life you want TODAY, not months or years from now.

If you want to make that happen... if you're feeling a strong urge to go ahead and take control of your social life RIGHT NOW, then sign up for a live program and take advantage of our offer before it's too late.

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Well, as always, it's been fun, but these guys are calling me to get off the damn computer and hit up the clubs. They can be very persistent, let me tell you. So...

'Till next time, play on.


Jeffy, Executive Coach REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS

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