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Welcome, Friend.

Today is a very momentous day, as I am about to embark on a mystical journey of discovery.

Let me explain. I've been having a lot of threesomes lately, and it's great and everything, I just have one small complaint.

With two girls, it's sometimes hard to completely satisfy both of them, if you know what I mean. So I decided to step my threesome game up.

I spoke to my doctor.

And well, hey, whaddya know, HMOs are good for something after all.

Turns out they've hooked me up with some of these newfangled weiner pills. I've invited a couple girls over tonight to do a little experimentation. Gee, it's so exciting, it's like I'm back in college.

So, I've got some time to kill before that all goes down, however, so I thought I'd sit down and take a moment to bust out a newsletter for you (no pun intended).

Question and answer style this time, let's rock...

*** QUESTION ***

Hello Jlaix ,

I posted a email to Tyler and His advice was to contact You about some problems about vocal projection and training to have a louder voice. For a long time I had several problems with My voice, and My main problems are:

* Emotional difficulty to deal with money alpha guys who interfere with my sets.

** I am eager to improve My voice pitch and tonality; How much time would u recommend for me training and practicing (screaming) on a daily basis, how this is done exactly?

Can You kindly tell me briefly about emotional sensitivity involved in dealing with these alpha male other guys and how to deal with negative emotions we get when some one tries to tool us, IOW how to make them feel the same potent neg emotions.

Peace on earth; Keep it up! Dan

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Ok, we have two separate questions here, so I'm gonna take them one at a time.

Your first question concerns your voice. I believe that your voice is the number one tool in your seduction arsenal. When I go out, I know that my success or failure is largely dependent on how crispy my voice is hitting that night.

With that in mind, I've gone to great lengths to cultivate and maintain it.

You're aware that when we're talking about your voice and how it functions in a pick-up, what we're really talking about is an aggregate of characteristics that includes not just volume, but also tonality, resonance and pacing. You need to be aware of all of these things and how they all interact to comprise what we call your "voice".

Your tonality is important because it plays a big part in expression. Remember at RSD, we define game as: your expression of inner state, conveyed by the rhythms you use to direct the energy of the social interaction. You want to learn to combine your tonality and the way you pace your words to create a smooth flow, a sort of hypnotic wavelength to captivate the girl and suck her into your reality.

This means changing your pitch up and down, sometimes you'll yell, other times you'll whisper, you'll vary the SPEED at which you talk, and insert pauses for effect.

All of these things must be learned in the field through trial and error. Over time, you develop an intuition about how to use your voice in this manner for maximum effect. For now, though, it's important for you to start thinking about these things and simply be AWARE of them while you're interacting with women. Pay attention and see what conclusions you can come to.

But the first step in getting a great voice is developing the actual physical apparatus and learning how to control it like a virtuoso violin player. In other words, "screaming" is not the way to "practice", dude.

If this is something that really concerns you (and it should), I might go so far as to recommend singing lessons. These will teach you how the various parts of the vocal apparatus function and how you can control them to get the desired effect. How to project from the diapraghm to increase volume without sounding like you're shouting. How to bend your pitch up slightly to cut through loud bass at the club. Stuff like that.

Personally, the way I went about developing my voice was by singing karaoke. When I started, I couldn't sing my way out of a paper bag. After three nights a week of singing Journey and Air Supply for five years, not only do I know exactly what my voice is capable of and how to make it do what I want, I've also strenghtened it a great deal. It's just like lifting weights.

Now, your second question deals with a common problem. You're in the club and you're talking to some girls. All of a sudden, some tall goodlooking guy rolls up and enters your set. He starts making condescending comments about your appearance and generally "tooling" you.

You feel something inside start to shrivel up, and you end up walking away, defeated.

I've discussed this before in the newsletter. It's called SOCIAL PRESSURE, and it's something we all face when we're out there in the field.

When social pressure is applied to us, it activates a region of our brain that's also activated when we feel physical pain. In other words, IT HURTS.

I like to think of it like a cup. When the pressure is applied, the cup starts to fill up. There's a short lag time between when our brain logically processes it and when it hits us on an emotional level. This time is very small, like two seconds maybe. And during that time, the cup is filling up.

Once the cup is full, we're locked into that emotion. BUT, if we short-circuit the process before it can fill up, we can maintain our state.

There are a couple ways to do this. The first is to take immediate action. In the case of the guy trying to tool you, this might mean ignoring the comment and talking loudly over him, cutting off his thread.

Another way is to defuse it with humor. A classic way to do this is to do what we call a "display of lower value", or DLV. Guy makes a condescending comment, you agree and then say he is cooler than you.

Example: "Hey that's a really cool jacket dude!" (rolls eyes sarcastically)

Your reply: "Thanks man, you know I'm just trying to impress you, man! Look at the style on you, I can't compete!"

Get the idea?

These techniques are very useful in deflecting these types of intrusive attacks. But ultimately, if you want to control these "negative feelings", you're going to have to build an immunity to them.

That means purposefully exposing yourself to social pressure over and over again. By doing so, you will build up a tolerance to the brain chemicals responsible for those painful feelings until they no longer affect you so strongly. It's like a boxer doing full-contact sparring to toughen himself up and acclimate himself to being hit.

The effect after having done this has been compared to going SCUBA diving: as you dive deeper into the water, you know you shouldn't be breathing... but the apparatus protects you. You LOGICALLY KNOW that it's a social pressure situation, and you wait for the negative emotions to come, but they don't.

So, in summary, go out and put yourself in those situations, be confident in your tools to deflect negativity (immediate action, DLV humor, etc.), and start to build up that tolerance. That's the first step.

If you really want to go in-depth on how to handle these types of situations deftly, you should consider taking one of our Bootcamps.

In the program, we go over literally hundreds of lines and strategies on how to deal wth these guys who horn in on your action, and how to destroy or neutralize them before they even know what's happening.

This is the stuff we've developed as a result of traveling the world and picking up girls in some of the toughest, most competitive venues in the entire world, like Leicester Square in London and Sunset Boulevard in Hollywood.

With this stuff under your belt, these "champs" turn to "chodes" before your very eyes, and more importantly, before the GIRLS' very eyes. Buh-bye!

Okie dokie, that's all I gotta say about that. Thanks for writing.

Let's check out a success story next:

*** SUCCESS STORY ***

"I don't even know where to begin. Gratitude is most definitely in order.

Prior to Bootcamp, I was socially ignorant. I could approach women, but I never said or did the right thing.

After Bootcamp, I feel like a completely different person. I'm still me, but when it comes to approaching women & being in social situations, I am now the best of me.

You have passed on a skill that's allowed me to be more confident in approaching women. I've been able to "sell myself" & appeal to women. Everything I've feared before now seems ridiculous. Where were you guys when I was in high school? Your company is here now, & I am so glad that I decided to take your course.

I discovered that Real Social Dynamics are a group of guys that started off similarly to me & got so fed up w/ the dynamics of dating that they decided to do something about it. Your work has helped me out in ways I can't even express. Thank you...thank you...thank you."

- Earl K. from Los Angeles, CA, USA

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Yeah, you're spot-on when you talk about us being a group of guys that haven't always been super-pimp daddy game masters. Most of us started out just like anyone else, normal guys who wanted to take control of our social lives. So we put our noses to the grindstone and decided to reverse-engineer the whole seduction process from start to finish.

Our bulletproof system is the final product of years of fine-tuning, polishing, and perfecting. It'll increase your success beyond what you thought imaginable. And it'll empower you to approach anyone, anywhere, and break the tension and build rapport, while sounding like an old pro.

Listen: knowing exactly what to do, and when to do it, will trim years off your learning curve. (And most "naturals" never learn this at all.. they "shoot from the hip" and their closing ratios are embarrassing... yet they still get with dozens of hot girls per year!)

{!name}, if you're feeling a strong inner pull that says "Do this!", then trust your instincts, and grab all of the tools and resources we've spent years developing - so you can instantly profit from our years of hard-won experience. You can only come out ahead.

To learn more, check out this link:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/education/bootcamps.asp

Okay, let's have the next contestant on The Price is Right... come on down!

*** QUESTION ***

Hey Jeffy,

I took the RSD seminar in Toronto with 26 and Tyler.

I've been having ALOT more fun socializing and meeting new people and just overall having a wicked attitude towards things.

At the seminar, 26 in particular taught to let go of all the BS we are holding onto. In other words, to stop thinking so much about technique and tactics and just forget it!

This was very different from anything I'd ever heard since everyone tries to so hard to make Pick Up a systematic system or 'rules and steps'.

Tyler was quoted as once typing online: "JUST ACT F**KING NORMAL!"

My question is:

What is YOUR (jeffy's) personal way of creating the attitude inside yourself that causes the ATTRACTION mechanism in women to go on?

Because as we know, once we cause a woman to feel ATTRACTION, we can further go onto other stages such as Comfort and then Physical stages, however the ATTRACTION needs to be there first.

Thanks! J :) Toronto Ontario

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Hmm. I think what you're asking me is how I get into STATE when I go out.

You're talking about that peak state you hit, when you're in "the zone". When you can drop all the rules and everything you've learned and just FLOW, and you can do no wrong, everything is hitting.

This is related to FRAMES and FRAME CONTROL. See, your frame is the perspective through which you view things. In any given interaction, the people involved each have their respective frames.

The thing is, the strongest frame will always win. The other people will be sucked into that person's frame no matter what.

When you are in state, your frame becomes rock-solid. Therefore, others are sucked into your frame and attraction is inevitable.

So, having said that, how do I get into state when I go out?

First of all, when I go out, I make up my mind that no matter what happens, I'm out there to have fun, and to bring that energy to every set I approach.

Having fun is paramount to the process. If I ever start to get any sort of approach anxiety, I downplay it immediately. I'm just out there having fun. I mean, I could be in IRAQ getting SHOT AT. Instead, I'm out at the club, having some drinks and talking to some girls. No big deal.

Another way to get in state is by doing what I call "warmups". This means hitting up a couple of sets where I genuinely couldn't care less about the outcome, i.e. less-attractive sets. This is usually enough to get me in a good, talkative, social mood. Once I hit my groove, I'm good to go.

See, I've trained my thoughts to work in my favor. Not through some bizarre hypno-weirdness or chakra work, but by hitting up tons of sets. What gets me into state? Seeing a hot girl.

I feel COMPELLED, not intimidated.

The successful see a situation and focus their energy, the unsuccessful hesitate and cycle through failure scenarios.

But it's not intensity... it's peace. I'm calm, there's a purity of thought. I feel equipped. I don't NEED material to work, because I KNOW it will work.

In our live, in-field programs, you'll see this demonstrated and explained in exhaustive detail, so you can hit this state at the drop of a hat.

Our team of highly trained Executive Coaches are here to act as your personal mentors and instructors. Your game is no longer your problem.

It's OUR PROBLEM.

Look, you wouldn't try to teach yourself karate by reading a book, would you? Probably not. You'd go to a respected, accomplished instructor.

Why should pick-up be any different? After all, it's been proven that it can be nearly as painful!

During your personalized workshop, you'll be pushed to your limits...

Then you'll be pushed some more! :)

And the entire time, the RSD executive coaches will be there, not only to provide you with intensely detailed feedback and suggestions, but also to demonstrate what is REALLY possible.

This is an investment that pays dividends for a LIFETIME.

After all it's YOUR life, and it's ticking away every second. You owe it to yourself.

To learn more about Real Social Dynamics programs, click this link:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/education/seminars.asp

Cool. Well, looks like that wraps up this episode. I've got a big night ahead of me, so I'm gonna sign off here, take some vitamins, and try to get a quick nap in before it's time to welcome my guests. Should be interesting to say the least.

I'll keep you posted.

Peace.

Sincerely,

Jeffy, Executive Coach REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS

PS...Do you have any questions or success stories that you'd like to see in this newsletter? Keep it brief, email them to me at jlaix@realsocialdynamics.com and I'll answer them personally. I'll provide the solution to any challenge you can possibly put to me. Remember: even if an obstacle seems "big" to you, our team has probably faced it hundreds of times, so we can solve
it in a SNAP.

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