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Master State Control to Attract Women Immediately

Hi, Friend.

I've been getting into baseball lately.

For most of my life I haven't been a big sports fan, but recently I started going to SBC Park here in San Francisco to watch the Giants play. The main reason? One of my girls has season tickets.

One thing I noticed about the ballpark is that it's literally CRAWLING with babes.

I'm not even kidding, it's like a massive nightclub that holds 40,000 people, and there's all these hot girls running around with painted-on jeans and little half-shirts.

Half the time, I don't even watch the game, I just walk around and do pickup. So, this is something you might wanna check out.

Anyways, I find it pretty amazing how these baseball players can hit this little ball that's hurtling at them at 100 miles an hour.

I was reading some article about this on the plane the other day, they were interviewing the top hitters about what it takes to do this.

A recurring idea that the players talked about was "seeing the ball".

They said that on good days, they can focus on the pitch and they actually see the ball coming down the pipe as though it was slowed down.

Their brains are just so focused and processing so efficiently that "time slows down" and they can see everything happening more clearly.

Reading this reminded me of what it's like when I "hit state" in the field.

You know what I'm talking about, when you have one of those nights where everything is just hitting, you're firing on all cylinders, everything you say is money and your rhythm and timing are perfect.

With mastery of state control, you'd be scoring more home runs than Barry Bonds and Jason Giambi put together... no injections required!

When you're in state you can do no wrong. It's something we've been exploring lately: what is "state", and how exactly does it affect the mind and body?

More importantly, how does it affect your game?

Sometimes, you just aren't feeling it. You can't be in perfect state all the time...

...or can you?

I know that when I'm NOT in state, there is a DISTINCT effect. My body gets flooded with adrenaline, I feel nervous, sweaty, and sorta sick. I might even get approach freeze, in extreme scenarios. This is, basically, the old 'fight or flight' response kicking in.

There's an opposite condition in the field of psychoneuroimmunology called the relaxation response. It's characterized by a reduction in blood pressure, heart rate, respiration, perspiration, and an increased immune response.

In other words, a good attitude can actually heal serious ailments. There are numerous cases where patients have recovered from cancer having been provided with nothing but placebos. They expected to get better, and as a result, they did.

State control is the variable which more than anything else determines the quality of your game, particularly in the face of overwhelming social pressure. The term "state" here refers to the way you feel both physically and mentally when presented with a challenge.

The challenge itself is irrelevant. You might be sick with a cold, in a club that's louder than an F-16 taking off, approaching a "10" who's surrounded by five tall, rich-looking gorillas.

The key lies in your perception of the scenario.

See, how you perceive things will ultimately dictate the QUALITY of your game, and your state at any given will invariably determine your perceptions. So... when you can control your state you control how good your response will be.

This is what lies at the heart of the whole "inner game" issue. It's ironic, because by worrying about this stuff, you practically guarantee your failure. It's the old Pygmalion effect.

In the Greek myth, Pygmalion was a sculptor who created a female statue and wanted so badly for it to be real that, with the help of Aphrodite, the statue came to life.

What psychologists now refer to as the Pygmalion Effect is essentially a self-fulfilling prophecy. What we expect tends to come true.

Even if that expectation isn't accurate, we will act in ways consistent with the expected outcome, and in the process our entire physiology and speech reflect this.

People have a tendency to respond by adjusting their behavior to match ours. The end result is the expectation becomes true.

I see this all the time when I'm in the field with newbies.

I'll tell them to open a set, and I can already see them cycling through failure scenarios in their head.

Then they meekly approach the set and squeek out their opener; nine times out of ten the target has to ask them to repeat it because it was inaudible, then they give some noncommittal answer.

These guys will then stutter and deliver a follow-up routine, then stand there with insecure, needy body language, waiting for the girl to say something.

Can you guess what happens next?


Check it. The guy is using the EXACT same material I use. The words coming out of his mouth are exactly the same. I am not better-looking than the newb, or better dressed.

Yet when I roll up on a similar target, I do not get asked to repeat myself, nor do I get noncommittal answers. My follow-up does not get me blown out, but rather gets the target BLOWING UP GIGGLING AND SHRIEKING.

What's the difference?

Simple. While the newb is sitting there pondering all the ways he could possibly fail and look like a tool, I am contemplating what sort of noises the chick will make when I'm doing her from behind.

There are no thoughts of failure, I don't have time for that, and I seriously don't even give a damn, because I'm getting laid like a rockstar regardless.

Consciously or not, when we approach we tip people off as to what our expectations are. We exhibit thousands of cues, some as subtle as the tilting of heads, the raising of eye brows or the dilation of nostrils.

Most are much more obvious. And people pick up on those cues.

So basically, your attitude determines your success in a lot of respects.

Your attitude also determines what you can get away with. I've done some retarded, ridiculous stuff in the field that would get a normal person smacked up in the blink of an eye, but I got away with it because I was congruent with it.

Congruency and your state go hand in hand.

Remember also that girls are fluid; they will adapt to whatever frame you set.

It's important, I find, to monitor and control your state not only during your interactions, but also before and after them. Going into the night with a solid frame is much better than trying to adjust your attitude once you get in the club.

Similarly, even your state during debriefing can color your perceptions of what actually happened, which can be misleading and perpetuate unhealthy negativity loops.

By this point, you're undoubtedly thinking, "OK, this is very illuminating and all, but how can I use this information to my advantage?

How To Induce Peak State And Maintain It At All Times

There are a number of ways to induce the relaxation response and "hit state".

Clinically, it has been found that hypnosis can be effective, with some patients undergoing surgery without anesthesia, stuff like that.

Meditation and breathing techniques can also be very effective. In practical terms, I find that just monitoring my breathing out in the field gets good results.

Sometimes I'll catch myself breathing wrong, and I'll just slow it down and hit a good rhythm; this helps a lot.

Humor will also induce the relaxation response, which is kinda weird because if you think about it, laughter has a lot of the hallmarks of the stress response: erratic respiration, increased heart rate, etc.

But nothing gets me in state as quickly as just joking around with my boys out at the club, busting each other's balls or whatever, just acting weird.

Once we all get laughing hysterically, I feel unstoppable, I'll approach any set at the drop of a hat. Cool stuff.

During the Real Social Dynamics live, in-field persoanlized workshops and bootcamps, your state will be pumped SKY-HIGH, NON-STOP.

And once you know these secrets, you'll be able to induce that game-winning state ANYTIME, ANYWHERE.

You wanna know what the best part is?

That's only the beginning.

Over the course of the program, you'll be bombarded with MOUNTAINS of cutting-edge information to rocket your game to the next level.

Armed with this information, you'll be able to:

=> Approach any group of people without fear or hesitation.

=> Immediately capture their undivided attention.

=> Separate yourself from the competition.

=> Build attraction within minutes (if not seconds).

=> Consistently establish comfort and trust.

=> Deflect any opposition with conversational ninjitsu.

=> Demonstrate that your standards are extremely high.

=> Seal the deal consistently!

Our bulletproof system is the final product of years of fine-tuning, polishing, and perfecting.

It'll increase your success beyond what you thought imaginable. And it'll empower you to approach anyone, anywhere, and break the tension and build rapport, while sounding like an old pro.

"Incredible. So much info related in 3 days my mind is SATURATED! Opened multiple sets on a regular basis - a concept that I didn't think was realistic at all. Overcame my fears/inhibitions and had awesome encounters with absolutely beautiful women."

- Lance G, San Francisco, CA

Listen: knowing exactly what to do, and when to do it, will trim years off your learning curve.

And most "naturals" never learn this at all.. they "shoot from the hip" and their closing ratios are embarrassing... yet they still get with dozens of hot girls per year!

{!name}, if you're feeling a strong inner pull that says "Do this!", then trust your instincts, and grab all of the tools and resources we've spent years developing - so you can instantly profit from our years of hard-won experience.

You can only come out ahead...

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During your personalized bootcamp, you'll be pushed to your limits...

Then you'll be pushed some more!

And the entire time, the RSD executive coaches will be there, not only to provide you with intensely detailed feedback and suggestions, but also to demonstrate what is REALLY possible.

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This is an investment that pays dividends for a LIFETIME.

Thanks again for reading our newsletter, and I'll see you next time with some more REAL-LIFE tips and tactics. Over and out.


Thanks for reading!


Jeffy Executive Coach, RSD

PS...Do you have any questions or success stories that you'd like to see in this newsletter? Keep it brief, email them to me at jlaix@realsocialdynamics.com and I'll answer them personally. I'll provide the solution to any challenge you can possibly put to me. Remember: even if an obstacle seems "big" to you, our team has probably faced it hundreds of times, so we can solve
it in a SNAP.

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