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Shamelessly Over-The-Top Success With Women is Easier Than You Think

In this issue:

- A Few Thoughts on Calibration

- Success Story

- RSD News

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A FEW THOUGHTS ON CALIBRATION:

Hey Friend,

Do you remember the last time you met a truly special girl, got your hopes up, and imagined how delicious she'd be in bed?

She wasn't attracted you and -- let's face it -- you feel like it's not fair. She's probably having hot and steamy sex with some other guy, but why?

If you could only get to the bottom of this, and understand what truly turns girls on, you could have dozens of hot girls chasing YOU.

It's incredibly frustrating. What makes things more difficult is the fact that when it comes to success with women, things aren't always as they seem.

It's interesting: a lot of times, when I talk to guys, even guys who are heavily field experienced, many of our ideas and conclusions will come from when we've seen ATTRACTION in sets, and not necessarily from when we've gotten laid.

So I've been reflecting on what I've done and successes that I've had and all that recently. Trying to put together what the common threads were.

Because it's obvious to me that there are things that you can do in set that generate attraction, but that will actually decrease your chances of getting laid.

For example, flirtatious lying to girls can generate attraction. They may freak out and start shooting indicators of interest (because they find you fun), but they may lose trust in you.

Likewise, you can verbally spar very heavily, and that can have mixed results.

It might be the main reason for you hooking up with the girl, but uncalibrated it might also generate a situation where the girl shows interest as a way of winning your approval and loses interest once she gets it because she didn't like you.

As Lindsey Lohan says in the movie Mean Girls, "Just because you don't like someone, doesn't mean that you don't want them to like *you*."

So often we find ourselves in that situation where we have generated attraction but the girl does not like us, and once we try to escalate she knows that she has our approval and she loses interest.

That comes down to calibration, and the WAY that you use stuff.

The same can go for doing anything really daring.

I can walk up to a girl walking down the street and pick her up and piggyback her. I can even take her drink and start drinking it, or jump into a car full of girls at a stop light. I act CRAZY sometimes.

I can get away with it because I have forced myself to do it and I am congruent with it.

And when I do it, the girl will be giggling and totally into me. Attraction through the roof.

But I'll have lost trust down the line, because I haven't stayed laid back and chilled and composed.

That is why when we hire on RSD field instructors, we need to see them getting laid. Like, we need to go out and pull with them.

We're always tempted to hire on guys who can get attraction like above (they are easier to find, and many of them are really cool dudes), but we want the models of game being demo'ed to be something that's getting a very consistent lay rate.

There are many guys who can generate strong attraction in set, but their game is what I'd call "loose", in the sense that they are sacrificing composure and being chilled back and smooth, in order to generate that initial interest.

That's why it's important to be SMOOTH AS HELL.

Super smooth, and chilled back.

Like possibly the smoothest you can conceive of.

I only learned this in the last few months, and previously I was decent but not exceptional.

These days I will generate the same attraction as I did before, but with a higher lay rate cause I'm chilled back.

This leads us to the following conclusion:

Never Sacrifice Social Value To Achieve Interest!

If you do, you risk doing so at the expense of losing the girl when all is said and done.

The determining factor with whether or not a girl will want to see you again is your calibration. So focus on calibration, not technique.

Can you run a great conversation consistently with strangers? If you can't, then you lack calibration.

So now here's the big realization I've had recently.

This comes from analyzing all of the girls that I've had sex with. Not the coulda-woulda-shoulda, but the girls that I really hooked up with.

My smoothest successes had the following things in common:

=> Awesome vibe. We have awesome chemistry and LIKE each other. There is never a situation where the main reason that the girl is talking to me is that she's chasing my validation.

That might be a secondary reason (fine, whatever!), but it's not a situation where once she has it she'll lose interest.

=> Good conversational give and take at some point, which stems from the vibe bringing out the best in both of us.

=> The vibe is good enough that sex NEVER has to be discussed, AT ALL. We just talk, and the chemistry subtext is EXPLOSIVELY OBVIOUS.

Even when I escalate physically, I don't need to verbally address it.

=> No relationship talk. Most girls have some guy they're seeing (at least), and I don't want it coming up.

I don't want relationships coming up at all, in the same way that I don't want politics coming up. I want VIBE. Awesome vibe. I want to be talking about things that are funny, fascinating, and spontaneous.

=> I didn't do anything over the top to spark attraction.

In all of these cases, it seemed like things "just happened".

Of course, nothing could be further from the truth... I had a game plan and was methodically advancing my agenda from the moment I said "hello".

Listen, this stuff is easier than you think.

The important thing is to quiet that inner dialogue and just FLOW. Caring about the outcome will actually work against you. That internal pollution taints what you're broadcasting.

You can't hover across the lake while you're desperately treading water.

All right, you get the point. Now let's take a look at a letter from the RSD mailbag:

*** SUCCESS STORY ***

"My name is Matt, and I took the RSD bootcamp in LA.

Quick improvement synopsis:

- I am getting strong attraction now on a consistent basis from a much wider variety of cute and hot girl personalities, including girls chasing me at times.

- The "frat guy" attitude Tyler demo'ed to me is helping me consistently pass shit tests in set (a major sticking point previously).

- I have moved beyond "just" gaining attraction and then stalling, I am escalating...I have moved on to extracting girls out of clubs and have gotten a girl home on a day2 and in my bed (huge for my formerly socially-retarded self).

- I have developed a pretty keen "emotional intelligence" to know where I'm at in any given interaction.

- My phone game is actually starting to get GOOD, i.e. I am not nearly as retarded and loserish on the phone with my heart pounding due to intense neediness.

I am taking girls that dryly answer "hello" and whipping them into a frenzy by ignoring that shit and gaming them right off the bat...and I'll *actually* call now to actually go for *actual* meets, etc.

After those improvements, I have recently been in a place mentally where I know I can just relax and know that I don't have to TRY SO HARD.

In other words, when there is no tension, no outcome dependance, no NEED, the right answers pop out of your mind plentifully, the best jokes queue up instantly, the girls don't sense you "want something" and therefore won't blow you out, etc.

So that's what I've been into lately and it feels REALLY F**KING GOOD."

>>>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Congrats, bro, that's awesome. That's a huge point you make at the end of your letter that I think a lot of guys overlook: STOP TRYING SO HARD. It's called "game" for a reason.

Have fun with it, and you're liable to have more success than you can reasonably handle.

Then you can share with your friends and neighbors... because sharing is caring.

Seriously, though, Matt's letter highlights some crucial ideas, one being the idea of "emotional intelligence". This is related to calibration. Being aware of how you are affecting others emotionally.

Calibration is something you can learn. Typically it is learned through massive repitition of social interaction. It can take years to develop a noticeably improved social intelligence. There's no way around it, right?

WRONG!!!

Listen: at Real Social Dynamics, all of our Executive Coaches are required to have several thousand approaches under their belts before they are even CONSIDERED for the TRAINING PROCESS.

And, as I said above, they're carefully screened to make sure their game is FOR REAL.

By taking a RSD live, in-field Personalized Workshop or Bootcamp, you'll INSTANTLY profit from our collective *decades* of hard-won experience.

During the program, your mind will be SATURATED with TONS of instantly usable, proven field-worthy information.

Then you'll hit the clubs and apply what you've learned, with the Executive Coaches there to guide you and provide instant, detailed feedback.

This is an experience that can literally take years off your learning curve. Many students have found it so valuable that they ended up taking the program several times in different cities across the globe.

{!name}, I suspect by now your hunger is growing... you can see yourself as a guy who's extremely satisfied. A guy who has his choice of women. And it CAN be a reality. This is something anyone can learn...

You just need a jump-start!

The information and personalized training in our live programs can save you a lot of frustration, and get you the life you want TODAY, not months or years from now.

If you want to make that happen... if you're feeling a strong urge to go ahead and take control of your social life RIGHT NOW, then sign up for a live program and take advantage of our offer before it's too late.

Life's too short. You owe it to yourself. Learn more about our programs by clicking the link here:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/education/seminars.asp

During your personalized bootcamp, you'll be pushed to your limits...

Then you'll be pushed some more!

And the entire time, the RSD executive coaches will be there, not only to provide you with intensely detailed feedback and suggestions, but also to demonstrate what is REALLY possible.

To learn more about RSD Personalized Bootcamps, visit:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/education/bootcamps.asp

This is an investment that pays dividends for a LIFETIME.

All right, that's about it for this issue. Thanks again for reading our newsletter. Until next time... over and out.

Sincerely,

Jeffy, Executive Coach REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS

PS...Do you have any questions or success stories that you'd like to see in this newsletter? Keep it brief, email them to me at jlaix@realsocialdynamics.com and I'll answer them personally. I'll provide the solution to any challenge you can possibly put to me. Remember: even if an obstacle seems "big" to you, our team has probably faced it hundreds of times, so we can solve
it in a SNAP.

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