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The Two MOST VITAL Aspects of Your GameHowdy, Friend! How's it goin', partner?
Please excuse the bizarre vernacular, I'm feeling like a cowboy today, like a bad-ass gunslinger. I've had a really good week. Three new girls in one weekend, not bad. Not bad at all.
It's times like this that I like to sit. Sit and reflect. Why is it that I can go for weeks at a stretch and not lay a single girl, then suddenly, BAM BAM BAM!!! I get on a roll and pick up several girls in rapid succession?
That's what we're gonna explore in this issue. We shall explore it together, how special.
After a lot of careful consideration, I think I've distilled it down to two MAJOR factors.
These are DISCIPLINE and INTENT.
It's that simple.
You can have all the techniques and tactics under the sun at your fingertips. You can have ten million sets under your belt, and five million lays. But if you don't have DISCIPLINE and INTENT, you're gonna be home alone with Rosie Palm and her five sisters, as we used to say in 8th grade.
With them, however, you're gonna put numbers up on the scoreboard FAST. And I mean REALLY FAST.
So let's get right to it; what exactly do I mean when I say discipline and intent? What do these concepts mean and how can you apply them immediately to get the kind of results you want?
Let's examine these individually. We'll start with discipline.
1. Training expected to produce a specific character or pattern of behavior.
2. Controlled behavior resulting from disciplinary training; self-control.
That's the dictionary definition of discipline. Informative, yes, but doesn't really illuminate what I'm talking about, does it?
Let me give you some specific examples from my own life.
I've trained myself to be very thorough about how I practice game. There are certain things that I do on a regular basis. Even if I don't particularly feel like doing them, I am disciplined to an extent that I do them regardless.
Take my phone game... please!
Just kidding. Take my phone game. Each week, I get several phone numbers from girls I pick up out at the bar. These are added to my already large list of what I call "live" numbers, i.e. numbers that I haven't burned to the ground.
I make it a point to go through my telephone and call all of my live numbers each and every single day, at the same time.
What I'll do is go through my phone and examine each number. when was the last time I called her? What was the outcome? How does she rate in priority to the others in the list?
And so on and so forth. I go through the entire phone list like this, until I settle on the ones I will call that particular day.
Then, I go ahead and make all of the calls. This takes time. For a guy like myself, I might want to allocate an hour to go through the whole process. For a guy like my friend Tyler, he might need three or four hours. The point is, this is a chore.
BUT I DO IT EVERY SINGLE DAY. AT THE SAME TIME.
Do you see how this sort of thing can really kick your game into high gear?
There are so many ways to apply discipline to your game.
It could mean forcing yourself to go out to the club a certain number of times per week. It could be something as simple as refusing to let yourself off the hook when you see a gorgeous woman in a "difficult" set. It could mean making yourself push things as far as you can in every single set.
It's called discipline, and it will change your friggin life.
But that's only half of the equation. Because I've got another little friend named Intent, and when these two guys get together, whoa daddy, it's a whole new ballgame.
Let me introduce you:
1. Aim or purpose.
Again, a very simple definition that belies the power of this little concept. Allow me to elaborate.
To me, insofar as game is concerned, intent means DESIRE. Think about that word for a second.
Rrrow!! I think of a wild tiger or something, looking at its delicious prey in the wilderness. I use this absurd metaphor because that's the most accurate way I can think of to describe the way I feel when I'm out in the field, I see a girl I want, and I just know that nothing on this planet is gonna stop me from getting her in bed.
Looking back at those long stretches of time where I'd be going out but not getting any action, I realize I was lacking intent.
Like, I'd be going out just to go out. The discipline was there, but not the intent. I was just going through the motions out of a sense of obligation. It was perfunctory, routine.
Or maybe I'd be satisfied with my harem as it was. Most of the time, I'm seeing two or three girls, with several "friends with benefits" in the wings, waiting to get bumped up. No reason to really TRY and get more. Complacency set in.
Then, after a while of this, something in my brain would snap.
"Whoa, dude, it's been a long time since you pulled any new girls! Are you losing it? You're going down, bro!"
All of a sudden, I'd have a fire under my ass. Next thing you know, it's another banner week for jlaix, and I'm putting up names on the scoreboard and deleting them out of my phone like it's nobody's business. Which it isn't. Except yours, I guess. I trust you. :)
It's like this. Discipline is the vehicle for your success, and intent is the fuel. One will not work without the other.
If you have discipline but no intent, things aren't gonna work out. It's like a poem written by a computer. There's no soul to it, it's incongruent. You may have limited success, but it's doubtful. Again, you're just going through the motions.
On the other hand, if you have a strong intent but no discipline, well, you're a mess. Bruce Lee once said, "Be like water," and that statement applies here. Think about it: water has no shape, no form without a container, but when it is FOCUSED, it can erode mountains and blast through solid rock. Having a disciplined game provides that focus for your intent.
As I said before, you might be the most skilled player on the block, with tons of experience under your belt, but without these two crucial components, you're stuck on square one.
Discipline and intent. They're like nitro and glycerine. Harmless by themselves, but mix them together and they're explosive.
Are you the most skilled player on your block? If not, one of our Real Social Dynamics Individualized Bootcamps is the quickest way to get you there. And if you are, it's the perfect way to keep your game razor sharp and learn some new things you've never even HEARD of.
Let me ask you this: if you had a giant, oozing boil on your neck, you wouldn't try to cut it off at home with a butter knife, would you?
Hell no... you'd go to a doctor, someone who had the training and expertise to know how to deal with it.
The fact of the matter is, our live programs are, bar none, the best and fastest way to upgrade your game to the next level.
This is the stuff that has been developed through years of work in the field, 7 nights a week and is empirically verifiable as the best, most efficient system out there when it comes to pulling the most beautiful women at will.
If you're comfortable with spending an indeterminate number of years of your all-too-short life hunting and pecking in the dark, trying to find out what works and what doesn't, that's totally cool. Delete this email and forget all about it.
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"I was very impressed. It's been a paradigm shifting experience. My first thought on meeting Tim was "what can this kid teach me?".
An hour later, I stood in awe, as he blew a dude out of a mixed set. The guy is a machine and an inspirational thinker and a very clear educator. Thoroughly enjoyable and enlightening.
I also realized I'd talked to more women in 48 hours than I had in the previous six months. I guess I recognize this course is not a magic bullet, it won't transform a man into Brad Pitt - but it does alter your mindset - you realize it's a game and act accordingly.
The biggest thrill for me was seeing a socially awkward guy like (another student) Daniel - go from gump to gunslinger, his self confidence had grown exponentially in three days."
- Sam D., Sydney
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It's no secret that our programs are one of the fastest, most rewarding ways to accelerate you on the road to becoming a master of social interactions.
As I said above, without the intense, personalized training you'll receive during the program, you could spend years and years improving through trial and error.
With the program, you can jump the learning curve and start enjoying a new life in a matter of DAYS, not years.
It's your life, and it's ticking away every second.
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On that note, I'm gonna sign off for now. Remember what we talked about today, because it's extremely important, in my humble opinion. It's what makes the difference betweeen a CHUMP and a CHAMP.
Discipline and Intent.
I'll leave you with that.
Jeffy, Executive Coach REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
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it in a SNAP.
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